Why la must you act like this?!!

Saturday, July 09, 2005

I don't understand. Help me understand! Why do girls always try and complicate matters? If you're mad or disappointed about something, just say it. If you want something, just ask. If you don't want guys to do something, just tell. But why must girls always choose the complicated path and try to say what they want to say indirectly. Why???

Most girls are like that. They expect us guys to understand what they mean from the vague phrases and sentences they say. Then, when we interpret their meaning wrongly, and acted not in the way that they expect us to, WE guys are blamed. Very frustrating!

I know, most girls act like that because they want to test their guys. If their guys are caring, understanding, and sensitive enough, he will be able to comprehend the indirect meaning of their words. Okay, but doing so will only invite conflicts in the future, due to misunderstandings! No matter how sensitive the guy is, he will not be able to catch all those indirect meanings 100%, and eventually will make mistakes, resulting in conflicts. Plus, not all guys are THAT sensitive. Most of us take words at face value: we only understand what is directly said to us, not what is behind those words that are being said. Most of us are blur people, you know...

So, my suggestion to girls is: please, just directly tell guys what you want! Don't just keep quiet or say something indirectly, and expect guys to know better. That, my dear, is just a recipe for disaster! Haih...

Posted by Nikman Shah at 5:51 pm
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